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    外贸连先生

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    “负能量”一词,相信大家对它已不陌生,因为不少人身边就充斥着各种各样的负能量,或者自己也时不时被自身“负能量”的阴霾所困扰。它让人情绪低落、意志消沉,阻碍人的正常发展。这股力量,就像一种传染病,不单单是影响着自己,当它存在于一个团队的时候,影响着的,就是一整个团队的发展。
    “Negative energy” is not a new word for everybody. In life, many people are haunted by all kinds of negative energy, or they are constantly beset by the negative energy of themselves. Negative energy makes us depressed, oppressed and feel like it is the end of the world. It’s contagious. It does harm to the development of individuals and the team.


    很多时候,在一个团队里面,传播最快的往往不是那些正面的、积极向上的正能量,而是那些负面的、消极的风气和心态。如抱怨:对工作和生活中的种种不满,对林林总总小事的各种看不惯,让自个儿的人生陷入各种自艾自怜,一股阴霾笼罩着自己,也“感染”着周边的人,定力不足的人最容易被动摇,因为他们很容易在抱怨当中找到“共鸣”,激发他们潜在的消极面,而随着抱怨声越来越多,就会威胁到团队的和谐与稳定。如消极悲观:“恐怕是我们的产品有问题,销量总是上不去;市道这么差,想出单恐怕难于上天;再这样下去恐怕公司也经营不下去了……”从消极的人口中,几乎听不到一句积极正面的话,感觉未来都是渺茫的。他们总是患得患失,内心脆弱且行动力低下,是团队中动摇军心的“中坚力量”……还有一些带着负面情绪工作的,尽管工作中没有发表任何言论,但是一股“低气压”却有一种“黑云压城城欲摧”心理压力,让周边的同事无法专心工作。
    For many times, it is not positive energy but negative energy that tends to spread in a team. Negative energy normally manifests in the following two forms. For one thing, complaints! When contempt and envies destroy the mood of one person, it is affecting the mood of the others, especially those with a weak mind. Because those people like to put their feet in the common ground and thus easily influenced by negative energy. With more and more complaints in the air, unfortunately, it will be so hard to maintain a harmonious and stable working environment. For another, pessimism! Such as, I am afraid there is big trouble with our products; Why is the sales performance so bad; The whole market is in great depression; It is almost impossible to win a customer; If this goes on, the company will go bankruptcy; etc. You can hardly hear something positive from their mouth. Well, they are always being too worried, vulnerable and unwilling to take actions to change their situations. Apart from some complaining a lot, there are many others who doesn’t say anything negative, but you can feel their negative energy within a 5-meters radius, which is also a great distraction to other colleagues.

    上述只是负能量的其中几种表现,它有着各种各样的表现形式,杀伤力极大。这样一股负能量一旦在团队中扩散,就会影响着团队中的成员,让本来安心工作的人也容易被负面情绪困扰,让本来就不安分的人更加有借口扩大自己的阴影面积,更加有不安分守己的理由,让整个团队的精神面貌和风气提振不起,严重阻碍团队的发展。对于一个团队,尤其是正处于组建阶段的团队来说,这样的影响是致命的。一旦处理不好,或者没有做好疏导,就会使得团队“分崩离析”。
    The above description is only two of the manifestations of negative energy, the emotion which has a negative influence on us. Once it is spread throughout the office, everybody will get infected. For those who focus on work, it is a distraction; for those who don’t want to work, it is an excuse. If it goes on and on, the working environment is ruined. To a team that is in the developing period, negative energy is a fatal obstacle. Only when this is well led can the team avoid failure.

    我们要知道,在一个团队当中,我们并不是一个单独的个体,自己的一言一行总是影响着团队中的其他人,是好是坏,正面还是负面,积极还是消极,都是我们自己能控制的范围。我们就算不能成为发放正能量的小太阳,也不能做发放负能量的“核电站”。
    We have to know that no one is isolated in a team. Whatever we do or say, no matter good or bad, positive or negative, optimistic or pessimistic, think about the influence you have on the others of the team. Even if we cannot be the ones who always inspire others, we are definitely not those who spread negative energy.

    面对工作、面对生活,我们都会遇到各种不如意,但有一句话说得很好,“现实有时可能是残酷的,但在没有办法改变的情况下,积极乐观地面对才能把现实踩在脚下,而不是扛在肩上,负重或者负痛地活着。”外部世界不可改,但心态却能改变你看世界的角度。
    We are meant to confront with various obstacles in life or work. But there is a saying: It may be rainy in the way to success, but if you cannot change it, you have to step on it instead of bearing it! What we cannot change is the environment, but what we can change is our mind!

    心随境转是凡夫,境随心转是圣贤。

    Losers blame on the environment, while winners are willing to improve the inherent.


    老土的说一句,求点喜欢(下方)、求回复支持!!求关注!

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    名人堂de小二

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    我要代表圈妹奖励你么么哒一个!

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    正能量爆棚~还特别喜欢传递正能量给周边的人,遇上负能量传递的情况自动屏蔽远离~

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    棒!学习了哟!

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    Steven Cheng

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    楼主,我要是说,我目前就是这样的一个团队,你有啥建议给我没有?

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    远离负能量

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    女友在保险公司做内勤,这个问题我也跟她提到过。
    保险公司招人是有要求的,每个月得招多少多少人,所以面试的时候基本上身体健康大脑发育正常符合学历和年龄要求的都能进,直接导致公司蛇龙混杂,一些消极的人整天吐槽公司的缺点天天谈离职,这种氛围直接就导致了流动性加大。
    所以面试的时候除了硬性要求还要看这个人是否真的喜欢这份工作。

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    心随境转是凡夫,境随心转是圣贤。
    Losers blame on the environment, while winners are willing to improve the inherent.

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    做个乐观的外贸人。

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    赞赞

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    一个负能量的话题。会搞的人整天心情都不好的。。

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    我也可悲地处于这样的工作氛围中,求解脱

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    亲,给你个好评哦!

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    cn1515248405nckw:心随境转是凡夫,境随心转是圣贤。
    Losers blame on the environment, while winners are willing to improve the inherent.
    回到原帖
    赞赞!有文化!

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    地球已经无法阻止你的脚步了!

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    赞一个

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    人非圣贤,负能量每个人都有,怎么控制的既不传染给别人,又不个人透露出来,好像很难,每个人还是管好自己来的容易些,不要那么容易动摇,多想想公司好的地方,同事好的地方,这样才能坚持的更长久。

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    做一个正能量满满的人好难。

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  • “负能量”一词,相信大家对它已不陌生,因为不少人身边就充斥着各种各样的负能量,或者自己也时不时被自身“负能量”的阴霾所困扰。它让人情绪低落、意志消沉,阻碍人的正常发展。这股力量,就像一种传染病,不单单是影响着自己,当它存在于一个团队的时候,影响着的,就是一整个团队的发展。
    “Negative energy” is not a new word for everybody. In life, many people are haunted by all kinds of negative energy, or they are constantly beset by the negative energy of themselves. Negative energy makes us depressed, oppressed and feel like it is the end of the world. It’s contagious. It does harm to the development of individuals and the team.


    很多时候,在一个团队里面,传播最快的往往不是那些正面的、积极向上的正能量,而是那些负面的、消极的风气和心态。如抱怨:对工作和生活中的种种不满,对林林总总小事的各种看不惯,让自个儿的人生陷入各种自艾自怜,一股阴霾笼罩着自己,也“感染”着周边的人,定力不足的人最容易被动摇,因为他们很容易在抱怨当中找到“共鸣”,激发他们潜在的消极面,而随着抱怨声越来越多,就会威胁到团队的和谐与稳定。如消极悲观:“恐怕是我们的产品有问题,销量总是上不去;市道这么差,想出单恐怕难于上天;再这样下去恐怕公司也经营不下去了……”从消极的人口中,几乎听不到一句积极正面的话,感觉未来都是渺茫的。他们总是患得患失,内心脆弱且行动力低下,是团队中动摇军心的“中坚力量”……还有一些带着负面情绪工作的,尽管工作中没有发表任何言论,但是一股“低气压”却有一种“黑云压城城欲摧”心理压力,让周边的同事无法专心工作。
    For many times, it is not positive energy but negative energy that tends to spread in a team. Negative energy normally manifests in the following two forms. For one thing, complaints! When contempt and envies destroy the mood of one person, it is affecting the mood of the others, especially those with a weak mind. Because those people like to put their feet in the common ground and thus easily influenced by negative energy. With more and more complaints in the air, unfortunately, it will be so hard to maintain a harmonious and stable working environment. For another, pessimism! Such as, I am afraid there is big trouble with our products; Why is the sales performance so bad; The whole market is in great depression; It is almost impossible to win a customer; If this goes on, the company will go bankruptcy; etc. You can hardly hear something positive from their mouth. Well, they are always being too worried, vulnerable and unwilling to take actions to change their situations. Apart from some complaining a lot, there are many others who doesn’t say anything negative, but you can feel their negative energy within a 5-meters radius, which is also a great distraction to other colleagues.

    上述只是负能量的其中几种表现,它有着各种各样的表现形式,杀伤力极大。这样一股负能量一旦在团队中扩散,就会影响着团队中的成员,让本来安心工作的人也容易被负面情绪困扰,让本来就不安分的人更加有借口扩大自己的阴影面积,更加有不安分守己的理由,让整个团队的精神面貌和风气提振不起,严重阻碍团队的发展。对于一个团队,尤其是正处于组建阶段的团队来说,这样的影响是致命的。一旦处理不好,或者没有做好疏导,就会使得团队“分崩离析”。
    The above description is only two of the manifestations of negative energy, the emotion which has a negative influence on us. Once it is spread throughout the office, everybody will get infected. For those who focus on work, it is a distraction; for those who don’t want to work, it is an excuse. If it goes on and on, the working environment is ruined. To a team that is in the developing period, negative energy is a fatal obstacle. Only when this is well led can the team avoid failure.

    我们要知道,在一个团队当中,我们并不是一个单独的个体,自己的一言一行总是影响着团队中的其他人,是好是坏,正面还是负面,积极还是消极,都是我们自己能控制的范围。我们就算不能成为发放正能量的小太阳,也不能做发放负能量的“核电站”。
    We have to know that no one is isolated in a team. Whatever we do or say, no matter good or bad, positive or negative, optimistic or pessimistic, think about the influence you have on the others of the team. Even if we cannot be the ones who always inspire others, we are definitely not those who spread negative energy.

    面对工作、面对生活,我们都会遇到各种不如意,但有一句话说得很好,“现实有时可能是残酷的,但在没有办法改变的情况下,积极乐观地面对才能把现实踩在脚下,而不是扛在肩上,负重或者负痛地活着。”外部世界不可改,但心态却能改变你看世界的角度。
    We are meant to confront with various obstacles in life or work. But there is a saying: It may be rainy in the way to success, but if you cannot change it, you have to step on it instead of bearing it! What we cannot change is the environment, but what we can change is our mind!

    心随境转是凡夫,境随心转是圣贤。

    Losers blame on the environment, while winners are willing to improve the inherent.


    老土的说一句,求点喜欢(下方)、求回复支持!!求关注!



  • 我要代表圈妹奖励你么么哒一个!



  • 正能量爆棚~还特别喜欢传递正能量给周边的人,遇上负能量传递的情况自动屏蔽远离~



  • 棒!学习了哟!






  • 楼主,我要是说,我目前就是这样的一个团队,你有啥建议给我没有?



  • 远离负能量



  • 女友在保险公司做内勤,这个问题我也跟她提到过。
    保险公司招人是有要求的,每个月得招多少多少人,所以面试的时候基本上身体健康大脑发育正常符合学历和年龄要求的都能进,直接导致公司蛇龙混杂,一些消极的人整天吐槽公司的缺点天天谈离职,这种氛围直接就导致了流动性加大。
    所以面试的时候除了硬性要求还要看这个人是否真的喜欢这份工作。



  • 心随境转是凡夫,境随心转是圣贤。
    Losers blame on the environment, while winners are willing to improve the inherent.



  • 做个乐观的外贸人。



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  • 一个负能量的话题。会搞的人整天心情都不好的。。



  • 我也可悲地处于这样的工作氛围中,求解脱



  • 亲,给你个好评哦!



  • cn1515248405nckw:心随境转是凡夫,境随心转是圣贤。
    Losers blame on the environment, while winners are willing to improve the inherent.
    回到原帖
    赞赞!有文化!



  • 地球已经无法阻止你的脚步了!



  • 赞一个



  • 人非圣贤,负能量每个人都有,怎么控制的既不传染给别人,又不个人透露出来,好像很难,每个人还是管好自己来的容易些,不要那么容易动摇,多想想公司好的地方,同事好的地方,这样才能坚持的更长久。



  • 做一个正能量满满的人好难。



  • 最后一句话非常经典!


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